MIT Sloan Management Review

Human Resource Management and Industrial Relations

Improving Face-to-Face Relationships

By Edgar H. Schein

January 15, 1981

In this paper, the author suggests that the key element to successful implementation of solutions to managerial problems lies in the improvement of face-to-face relationships. He goes on to articulate the factors involved in building and maintaining effective interpersonal communication. Particular attention is given to the repair strategies and skills needed to mend damaged relationships.

The challenges of management in the 1980s are enormous, but they are fairly easy to identify. The great difficulties that we face lie not in deciding what our goals should be, but in determining how to achieve them. Our problems in this area are problems of implementation: how can we reach goals that are often perfectly clear but seemingly impossible to attain.

Several explanations of these problems readily come to mind:

  • Large systems have become too complex to be understood.
  • "Bureaucracy" makes it impossible to get anything done.
  • Intergroup hostility paralyzes all constructive effort.
  • Power politics undermine and subvert rational action.
  • Irrationality and human resistance to change defeat even the wisest programs.

All of these explanations are true, but they are also incomplete. Sometimes they are used only as excuses for failure rather than as constructive analyses of our management problems. On the other hand, we have learned something about implementation in the last forty years or so, and what we have learned takes us back to one fundamental principle: societies, organizations, and families are human groups, and the face-to-face relationships among the members of these groups are a basic element of any social action. Whatever else we need in the way of systems, procedures, and mechanisms, the process of social action always starts with face-to-face relationships among people. Face-to-face relationships can be thought of as the glue that holds organizations... To read the complete article, login or sign-up using the form below.

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