The Curse of Your Qualities
Smart leaders know that what can save you can also kill you — that traits that are good in many ways can boomerang back and hit you in the face if you take them too far. Excerpts from “How to Become a Better Leader.”
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Smart leaders know that what can save you can also kill you — that traits that are good in many ways can boomerang back and hit you in the face if you take them too far.
In “How to Become a Better Leader,” in MIT Sloan Management Review’s Spring 2012 issue, authors Ginka Toegel and Jean-Louis Barsoux, both of IMD in Lausanne, Switzerland, explore the ways that leaders can recognize and manage their psychological inclinations.
Toegel and Barsoux lay out five personality dimensions, each combining a cluster of traits, that distinguish one person from another. The five factors:
1. Need for stability
2. Extraversion
3. Openness
4. Agreeableness
5. Conscientiousness
But each of these factors has both positive parts and negative parts, as the chart “The Curse of Your Qualities” shows.
Take, for example, factor 2, extraversion. On the plus side, extraverted leaders, the authors write, are sociable and assertive, but they can also be attention-seeking and self-absorbed. “High scores on the extraversion dimension can trigger perceptions that the executive is too talkative or domineering — with the added implication that he or she tends not to listen,” they write, adding:
Many executives face this challenge, including the country manager of a global foods giant we coached. Discussing his proposed action plan, he conceded: “I’ve realized that I have a habit of taking over in meetings. I want to get better at listening and to give less assertive people more space to express their opinions. So I need to listen more, but I also need to show I have processed what they’ve said. The personality scores just confirm feedback I’ve received in the past but not paid much attention to.”
A simple remedy for executives with a tendency to dominate proceedings is the “four sentence” rule: Whatever you have to say, limit yourself to four sentences. Then ask: “Do you want me to carry on?”
Take, as well, factor 3, openness. Leaders who are open often are creative and receptive to ideas, but it they’re receptive to too many directions they can come off as unfocused and frustratingly unpredictable.
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